PURCHASE Now
Let’s face it, we all make mistakes. When it comes to sex however, some women make more mistakes than we do.
While some tend to be frigid others like to overkill. Either way, these women are bound to be the left behind in the bedroom.
What many women fail to remember is that all relationships are about reciprocity, even simple sexual relationships. Women who mind going the extra mile to please their partners in bed, will never know the mistakes they commit and will find it a whole lot harder to keep their men crawling back for more. Sad part is, those women who keep their desires and apprehensions under the wraps often commit the same sex mistakes that end up killing their own sexual pleasure.
Women who like playing the role of the dominatrix, however, aren’t great either. Men simply consider them scary. What we don’t know is that behind that macho image, many men desire intimacy and passion. The dominatrix tends to come on too strong without being real and ends up disappointing her partner.
This is the reason why many relationships end up over bad sex. What females do in bed tell so much of their character or how truly interested they are in perusing with the relationship. It is great to be adventurous or sometimes a bit reserved, but going overboard either way is the easiest way to scare a man away.
Here are some of the common blunders women tend to commit in bed:
No one likes a noisy girl whether in bed or in the streets. When having sex, keep the moaning low and the screams down. Men get pleased when their women are pleased but they do not want to scare the neighbors off. Keep it simple and keep it real. A huge smile after sex is worth more than a loud battle cry to a man’s ego.
Sad to say, many women do this… and it’s disgusting.
Before having sex, always (and we mean always!) wash up. While a clean woman can always stimulate a man’s arousal, a smelly chick can easily turn him off. In as much as females love surprises, no one really knows what her man would like to give her on the onset of sex. It is best then to always be prepared. Never come to bed with dirty feet and an unwashed vagina. Men get easily turned on with clean and tidy women.
Nibbling on the ears can easily stir a man’s arousal, but nibbling too much reminds him of his dog. At the initial stages of sex, just lick gently on the earlobes as this can be very arousing to men. Even breathing gently into the ears can arouse a man’s senses. Over doing it, however, can be stalemating. Try going down a bit. Men, like women, have arousal points on their neck and tits. Rerouting to these points can do wonders for you and your man in bed.
If you aren’t giving a job, don’t go down at all. Men expect that while having sex, women who go down on them are going to give it to them. Don’t frustrate your man by going down only halfway. If you decide to go lower than the neckline, go down all the way.
Oral sex to some women can be challenging, as most females have not a clue on how to do it right. Though your man’s penis may feel hard and tough, it is actually one of the most sensitive organs in his body. When doing the job, be gentle and smooth. Pulling too hard on his penis does not get him aroused but rather hurts him, in a bad way. Arousing his playful senses is the object of foreplay. Up unless you are angry about something genuine, do not use the bedroom to get even.
Not everything seen on TV is real. Particularly how men like to brag about the fingernails of women on their backs. Normal men get hurt when they are scratched. Scratching down a man’s back hurts him and can leave scars. During sex, if you feel the need to scratch, choose another object to batter, maybe the headboard or the sheets. Keep your fingernails away from his skin, as this is the easiest way to turn him off.
Unless you have some sort of female arousal disorder, you have no excuse for being lousy in bed.
Do not be passive. Do not let your man do all the work while you lie there like a vegetable. Just because he is a man, it does not mean that he enjoys doing the job all the time. Make the first move sometimes, or surprise your man with something new every often. A bit more effort in sex can do wonders to a relationship and bring it forward to the next level.
If your reason for being passive, however, is because you’re finding it difficult to get aroused, try taking on a testosterone cream. It could be your libido that’s the problem. Your testosterones might be failing you and testosterone supplements might be just what you need to liven up your sex life.
Click here to read about the symptoms of low testosterone in women
